When you’re expecting twins, the dad’s role becomes even more important. It’s not just about being there at the right moments; it’s about stepping up in ways you may never have before. It’s not always going to be easy, but showing up and being ready makes a huge difference for your babies and your wife.
Here are 10 simple tips to help you get ready for this big journey.
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1. Learn From the Experienced
Learn from parents who have been through it. Reading relevant material and connecting with other twin parents is a great way to know what is to come. Make note of useful tips and pitfalls to avoid.
2. Get Yourself Ready
Prepare yourself mentally for what lies ahead. There will be a lot to do and barely any sleep. Learn to bottle-feed, change diapers, and swaddle - because you’ll be doing it a lot. It won’t be easy, but if you prepare for it, you’ll handle it better.
3. Be Her Pillar of Strength
Carrying twins is physically and emotionally straining on the mother. Be her rock. Help with everything from chores to appointments, and be around her as much as possible. She will need you more than ever.
4. Prepare Your Home
Set up all essentials in advance—bedding, diaper stations, a cozy room for the babies and mother. Ensure the mother is easily able to access the babies, since she might have limited mobility right after the delivery.
5. Handle Your Work Life
Check your employer’s paternity policy, inform your manager in advance, and plan your work load. Twins need a lot of time and care, and preparing for your absence at work will make things easier at home.
6. Get Ready For Delivery
With twins, D-day can come earlier than expected. Have the hospital bag ready with all the essentials for the mother and the babies. Pack things like diapers, swaddles, maternity clothes, maternity pads, toiletries, snacks and water. Also have important paperwork, like Govt IDs, Insurance Details, Hospital files and medical reports organized in a single folder.
7. Arrange Help
Taking care of twins isn't easy, you will need extra help. Whether it's trusted family members, close friends, or a professional nanny, having extra pair of hands around will make a huge difference when things get a little tough.
8. Prioritize Your Health
Stay healthy - eat right, exercise and get sufficient sleep. This would help in being both mentally and physically available during the entire journey.
9. Have a Support Network
Join a community of twin parents. This would enable you to reach out when you need a little advice or emotional support. Having others who understand your situation can be incredibly reassuring.
10. Embrace Every Moment
Things will get crazy and chaotic - appointments, scans, labour room chores, and hospital formalities. In all these, do not forget to enjoy the little moments - seeing your babies on a scan, accompanying your wife during labour or holding onto your babies for the first time. These are moments you will treasure forever.
